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Everyone
had remarked on how organised and calm I was a couple
of weeks before the wedding. That was before my H2B
Mike lost all his bank and credit cards twice in 10
days, I reacted badly to the malaria pills I was taking
which made me feel faint and have palpitations, and
Mike sprained his ankle two days before the wedding
and was hobbling around on crutches!
However, Saturday 21st August arrived none the less
and it was a great start to be woken up by the sun shining
in to my bedroom at 6am. After 14 months of planning
and preparation, at last it was our Big Day. As I lay
in bed with my mum, who was giving me away, I couldnt
wait to get up and get on with it. My two bridesmaids
joined us in the bedroom, and we had a good girlie laugh
at some of the old times we had shared. Jill and Angela
are my two oldest friends and know me like no one else,
and my main worry was that I would catch sight of their
trying to be serious faces and giggle during
the service.
We had a relaxed breakfast and headed up to the hairdressers
where we all achieved the splendid bouffon
hairdos necessary to accommodate our tiaras. We were
no sooner back home when our flowers arrived
they were absolutely gorgeous and suddenly I felt like
it was all actually going to happen. As the make up
artist arrived and began her hefty task of glamourising
us, my mum gave me a present from Mike. It was a CD
compilation he had made of our songs for
me to play as I got ready. For the first time that day,
I had a lump in my throat, as I listened to the first
track, Time Of Your Life by Green Day. This day was
going to be that for sure.
The service was beautiful with and went without a hitch,
apart from the priest disappearing for five minutes
in the middle, which caused bit of a stir. Mike and
I just kept grinning at each other all the way through;
I was marrying my best friend and soulmate. After our
vows, the priest announced "Ladies and gentlemen,
Mr and Mrs Michael Clingan." Everyone clapped as
I pulled Mike towards me and gave him a big smacker!
After much admiring of our faces, changing
into our outfits and practising holding the bouquets,
a couple of glasses of wine were needed to calm the
nerves. Suddenly the buzzer went and our car had arrived!
As we drove through Glasgow in the 1956 Pullman, I have
never felt so much the centre of attention as passers-by
stared and waved in the window, and cars slowed down
to have a look, tooting their horns.
We arrived at the church and as Wedding March from
Lohengrin by Wagner started up, I made my entrance
with my mum by my side. All I could see were a hundred
smiling faces as we walked towards my H2B, who was looking
straight ahead. I kept telling myself whatever
you do, dont cry! Then Mike looked
round at me and smiled the biggest smile. There were
no crutches in sight thankfully, as we walked up to
the altar to begin the service.
The service was beautiful with and went without a hitch,
apart from the priest disappearing for five minutes
in the middle, which caused bit of a stir. Mike and
I just kept grinning at each other all the way through;
I was marrying my best friend and soulmate. After our
vows, the priest announced "Ladies and gentlemen,
Mr and Mrs Michael Clingan." Everyone clapped as
I pulled Mike towards me and gave him a big smacker!
We left the church to Wedding March from a Midsummer
Night's Dream by Mendelssohn and stepped out into
the most lovely August day. Yes, the sun really does
shine in Glasgow too! We had group photos taken in the
little park next to the church and it was a great chance
to mingle and thank everyone for coming. Everyone looked
so smart and it really made me appreciate the effort
they had made, especially as most people had come some
distance. My husband and I got some time alone as we
drove off to the Botanic Gardens to have more photos
with Mike's best man and my bridesmaids.
The Botanic Gardens were a lovely setting for some romantic
shots, but we couldnt wait to get to the reception
to start the party! We all came back together, drinking
champagne from the bottle and congratulating ourselves
at how well things were going!
Our reception was held the Glasgow Thistle Hotel, which
was only two minutes walk from our church. As we arrived,
it was clear that all our guests had been making plenty
use of the free bar while they waited for us! We received
everyone into the main room and it was the perfect opportunity
to speak to all our guests individually. It took much
longer than expected to complete the receiving line,
but it was definitely worth it and one of the most enjoyable
parts of the day.
After the sumptuous meal, which
neither Mike and I could eat due to nerves about our
speeches, my mother started off the proceedings with
a very heartfelt yet witty speech. By this time our
evening guests were arriving, so they came in to hear
the speeches. I followed my mother with my speech during
which I gave out gifts to the people who had played
a particular role in our day: attendants, ushers, readers
and in-laws. I thanked my husband last, describing the
various stages of our courtship and how I knew he was
the one when he put up with me at my most
pathetic and clumsy worst during our rather stressful
first holiday together, skiing in Bulgaria.
Mike made many references to his Scottish roots in his
speech, particularly that his unusual surname actually
originates from Dumfries, and is a version of MacClingan!
That endeared him to my Scottish crowd! Mark, Mike's
best man, was hysterical and really did himself proud
in probably the most difficult of tasks, the best mans
speech.
We had asked our toastmaster
to invite anyone else to speak after Mark, to which
there was much shuffling. Who would make an impromptu
speech, after all? However, we knew a little secret:
our usher was planning to propose to my 2nd bridesmaid,
Jill. He stood up, walked to the top table, and very
calmly announced: "Jill and I have been going out
for 7 years, and in that time, Linzi and Mike have met,
gone out, moved in together, got engaged and are now
married.
I think its about time I did something about that!"
Then he got down on one knee and asked her to marry
him, to which she replied, rather aghast, "Yes!"
It made our day even more perfect and romantic, and
Jill was astounded when she knew that we had kept the
secret since Christmas. For once in my life, I had known
something she didnt! The evening went from strength
to strength, with a ceilidh to get everyone on the dance
floor followed by a disco. Mike and I danced our first
waltz, despite his dodgy ankle, and even managed a Samba
later on to one of our favourites, As by George Michael.
We had been going to dancing lessons and we had to show
off a bit! I spent all night chatting and catching up
with friends and family everyone seemed to be
having a good time and it was a very lively party!
When the disco finished around 1am, one of Mikes
friends took the floor and played a few songs on his
electric guitar, with Mike accompanying him on the harmonies.
This added a really personal touch to the night. Eventually
people began to leave the reception, but I was determined
to stay up as late as I could to savour every moment
of the most perfect day. At 3am we eventually called
it a night, in need of some sleep to prepare us for
our flight to Kenya the next day. The first week of
our honeymoon would be spent on safari which wasnt
going to be exactly restful!
It was the best day of my life. All the planning and
preparation paid off, and we put on the biggest party
for all the people who mean the world to us, our brilliant
family and friends.
Do Differently: Not a thing!
Groom's Comments: I always knew that Linzi and
I would have a fantastic day, however what made the
whole occasion something really special was the fact
that everyone else seemed to have a great time too.
When we came back from our honeymoon we had so many
comments saying that it was one of the best weddings
people had been to.
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