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Pedro
and I met in Barcelona - he is Chilean and I am German
- but somehow we both agreed that Cambridge was the
perfect place for us to get married. I had studied for
my Masters degree at King's College there and Pedro
also knows it very well. Also it was a place most of
our guests and family (which is super international!)
could make it to!
On a miraculously sunny although windy September morning,
all thirty guests made their way to Castle Hill where
the ceremony was held in the Registrar's Office. Anne
was escorted by brother Frank, father Michael and his
wife Margrit in a specially decorated car - so specially
decorated that Frank, the chauffer, nearly didn't make
it out of the parking lot (which was locked) and to
the ceremony on time! Although the registrar had a hard
time with Pedro's full name (in fact, Pedro did too!),
she conducted the ceremony beautifully and it was very
dignified. There were smiles all around, and also a
few tears were shed. The rings, hand-crafted in white
gold by Pedro's goldsmith sister Anastasia Mamlai, fit
beautifully! Alex read the Elizabethan poem "Love's
Tranquillity" by Sir Philip Sidney.
We signed the register to music of Mozart's "Magic
Flute", and then led the guests onto Castle Hill
into the bright sunlight, while receiving congratulations
and hugging friends we hadn't seen in months! We spent
the rest of the morning drinking Freixenet on the hill,
feeling blissfully happy and content and surrounded
by family and friends.
A
leisurely stroll down the hill took us to Galleria,
a little restaurant on the riverbank where we enjoyed
our food - lamb for the meat-eaters, wild mushroom risotto
for the veggies - and good Spanish red wine. After the
cake was cut - quite a feat in itself as it consisted
of various layers of fudge-filled chocolate brownie
mix (a King's College student favourite) - we enjoyed
tea and coffee on the balconies overlooking the River
Cam. With speeches from Michael, Mario and, of course,
best man Alex (as well as other friends), time went
by incredibly fast and before we knew it was time to
leave. We did get a good look at all those amazing presents
though.
A day in Cambridge is of course only complete with a
punting tour along The Banks... Five punting experts
- Cat, George, Alex, John-Joe and Stephan - took the
rest of us on a hugely romantic trip all the way up
to King's College, past Trinity and St. John's and below
the Bridge of Sighs.
After a few hours of well-deserved rest we met again
at the King's College Vac Bar to party the night away.
The wedding fairies had decorated the place beautifully.
In fact the room was unrecognisable to former King's
students! John-Joe presented us with a wickedly strong
Caipiroshka (Caipirinha but with Vodka!) and Jonathan
and Alex deejayed and got everyone dancing.
Anne's mother Karin got carried away with the white
balloons but later led a very successful Polonaise resulting
in only a few twisted arms and legs! The married couple
retired to their quarters at Cinderella-time - midnight
- and left everyone else to party on. Actually, we didn't
retire right away but sat on the stone bridge crossing
the river, stargazing and enjoying this magical night.
What a day - full of happiness, love and laughter. Of
course it was impossible to sleep... OH HAPPY DAY.
Do Differently: Nothing - it was all perfect.
We didn't regret our decision to have a civil wedding
instead of a religious ceremony at King's College Chapel
(which is gorgeous but simply too grand for us - our
ceremony was informal and very intimate). Just remember
to slow down and relax before the big day and appreciate
everything around you on the wedding day. Enjoy every
moment because time flies! A good team of helpers is
really important too. And don't forget that the most
important thing is not the food/reception/decoration
but sharing a wonderful celebration (the rest is just
marginal!!). We felt a small wedding (30 people) was
perfect as we got to talk to each of the guests for
a few minutes, which was really important.
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