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If you
do not feel capable of arranging your own flowers you will need to employ
a professional florist. There is a range of options to consider. A professional
florist can be approached to wire bouquets, headdresses, buttonholes
and corsages, and take care of the venue arrangements. When choosing
a professional florist, consider the following:
- Ask for personal
recommendations from friends and relatives
- Look in your
local newspaper or the business section in your local telephone book
- Ask several
florists for their prices and the kind of services they can offer,
to find one that suits you the best
- Look at the
photographs of previous weddings they have created flower arrangements
for, before making a decision
- Ask about visiting
the shop early on the morning of another wedding to look at the flowers
and the ways they can be arranged
The florist should
be booked approximately five to six months before the wedding, if not
sooner, and a meeting arranged at approximately six weeks to discuss
and finalise ideas.
If your wedding is to be held in a church, and you don't want to employ
a professional florist, try speaking to the church flower arrangers
to discuss the possibility of the weekly arrangers taking care of the
flowers. A contribution of money is polite and always welcomed, to allow
for extra flowers to be ordered.
If you
have decided to have your flowers organised, arranged and delivered
by a florist, you will need to meet to discuss your requirements. While
planning this meeting, make sure that your wedding dress and the bridesmaids'
outfits are finalised, otherwise you may choose the flowers before you
have chosen the clothes, and clashes may occur. It is important that
you discuss your ideas with the person who will be creating your flower
arrangements rather than the person who will just take your order.
Prepare some
ideas before you meet the florist. Look through bridal magazines for
ideas of wedding flowers that will help to explain what type of flower
arrangements you would like, and take along any sketches or pictures
that you have collected. If you are on a tight budget, ask your florist
if they offer any special bridal packages for a set price. This will
usually provide the basis but you may be restricted to certain colours,
flowers that are in season, less complicated designs and a smaller number
of buttonholes.
Take swatches
of your dress fabric and the bridesmaid's dresses, and if possible sketches
or photographs of the outfits, to allow the florist to create a bridal
bouquet that will complement instead of compete with your dress. You
should also mention the length of your veil and the hairstyle that you
intend to have. Experiment with different colour combinations before
ordering your final choice, and remember to tell the florist the amount
of buttonholes and corsages required.
The florist
will be able to offer you all sorts of advice on which style of bouquet
will suit the style of your dress best, and which flowers will best
complement your hair colour and complexion. The florist should also
be able to adapt styles and colours to suit your personality. Do not
be afraid to ask the florist to do something slightly different or unusual
that you think will compliment your celebrations.
Make sure you
discuss which flowers will last all day without wilting, especially
if your wedding is going to take place in the hot weather of summer.
Wild flowers are generally not a good option for weddings because they
will wilt quickly. Long lasting flowers include bird of paradise, carnation/pink,
marigold, montbretia, peruvian lily, and sea lavender/statice.
If you are unfortunate
enough to suffer from hay fever, ask your florist to remove the pollen
from the flowers. A good florist should deal with the pollen beforehand,
but if the pollen is still in place then flick or lightly brush it away.
Do not feel
restricted to fresh flowers; silk and dried flowers are also an option,
which allow you to keep arrangements from your wedding day or to give
them as gifts. It is possible to mix fresh and dried/silk flowers, providing
a solid arrangement with good lasting power. This option is especially
useful for flowers to be worn in the hair, as the artificial flowers
will give strength to the stems of the real.
You should ask
each florist the same questions, to ensure that you get comparable quotes
from each.
These are some of the things to consider when talking to each florist.
- When will
the flowers be delivered (the night before or on the morning of the
wedding)?
- Is there
an extra charge for delivery?
- Will the
florist stay at the ceremony and reception venues to arrange flowers,
light candles and make sure that the flower arrangements are correct,
or will the florist drop off the flowers and leave other staff to
take care of it?
- If you decide
to have the church arrangements transferred to the reception, will
the florist take care of the transportation?
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