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Speeches - Groom
 
Sample Speeches:
Pick 'n' Mix
Sweet and Loving
Short and Sweet
Second Marriage
Other Nickable Lines


Sample Speeches: Pick 'n' Mix
Here are some useful phrases and ideas for a great groom's speech. All you need to do is pick the best ones for you and fill in the blanks! If you want some more ideas, check out the Other Nickable Lines below.

1) Thank your new father-in-law
  • "I just want to thank my father-in-law for his kind/generous/special words. I feel honoured that he has taken/welcomed/ me into his family."
  • "Thank you, Ken, for your kind/generous/sweet/special words. It is good to know how you feel about Sarah and I getting married."
  • "My wife and I would like to thank Ken for being the best father of the bride ever. Not only did he give her away instead of locking her in her room but his kind/sweet/generous/witty words have made me feel welcomed/invited into his family."
  • "My wife and I want to thank Ken for his witty/kind/generous/sincere words. I now feel embarrassed at everything I said about him in the past /justified in my opinion that he's a great/good/perfect father-in-law."
  • "What can I say after that speech? Thanks, Ken."
2) Thank your guests
  • "This is the most important day of our lives and my wife and I/Sarah and I/we are delighted to share it with so many friend and family/our closest friends and families/two complete strangers in a registry office. We are also very grateful that so many of you have not only gone to the expense of sharing this day with us but have also bought us presents. Thank you."
  • "I can't believe that you made it here. You really are the best bunch/group/lot/mob/pack/herd of friends and family that we could ever hope to have. Thanks/thanks mates/you lot. We're also really grateful for the presents. Sarah was saying only a couple of days ago that she really wanted another toaster . . . or two!"
3) Thank your in laws
  • "I am so delighted/pleased/honoured/relieved/happy to have Ken and Angela as my new family/in-laws/other Mum and Dad. I knew that I'd like/love/get on/adore them when I fell in love with Sarah because they have helped her to be the person she is - perfect/rich/wonderful/fond of beer and rugby!"
4) Compliment your wife!
  • "You are always beautiful but you have never looked as stunning/good/wonderful/gorgeous as you do today, my bride/you make a wonderful/stunning/gorgeous/perfect bride. I love you."
  • "I was expecting to feel nervous/sick/terrified/concerned/worried/frightened when I woke up today but I didn't. Why? Because I knew that you would be walking down that aisle towards me and that the only thing I wanted was for you to be my wife/us to be married. I knew that you would look lovely, you always do, but you look so radiant/gorgeous/beautiful/wonderful/fantastic/stunning/a vision/perfect/the perfect bride. You mean so much to me and I want to thank you for agreeing to become my bride and I am so proud/happy/honoured to be your husband and I love you so much."
  • "Sarah, you are a beautiful/stunning/radiant/gorgeous/lovely bride and I know that you are just as beautiful on the inside. When I first met Sarah I realised that she was the most beautiful woman in the world/the only woman for me/I loved her/she had a ladder in her stockings but I never thought/imagined/dared to hope that she would marry me. I am so happy/chuffed/delighted/ecstatic/proud that she agreed to be my wife and share the rest of her life with me. I have been so proud of the way you have juggled organising this wedding with your job/anything else and still been patient and understanding - even when I didn't deserve it and I just want to say, in front of our friends and family, how much you mean to me. I love you."
5) Thank the Best Man
  • "When I asked Sarah to marry me, I knew that I needed a Best Man and that there was only one man that title would apply to. Bob is my brother but also a friend/has been my best friend since and I knew that he would be perfect for the job. I would like to thank him for all the work he's done today by acting as toastmaster/not losing the rings/getting me to the church on time/finding my trousers and before the wedding when he listened to me as I raved about the latest waistcoat/button-hole/wedding dress I had seen. Bob, you've been great/a mate/the best man I could have chosen/cool/a pal/a true friend/gorgeous!"
  • "I get the fun parts of today but Bob has all the stressful parts. Being the local postie/hippo keeper/accountant/general layabout I knew that he would be able to cope with today and keep everything, especially me, ticking along smoothly."
6) Thank and Toast the Bridesmaids
  • "The giggling little posse/stunning group of beautiful bridesmaids over there/to my right/to my left/in front of you have been amazing. Not only did they manage to walk down the aisle without falling over, but they've also been great with all the preparation. It may seem unfair to the rest of you, as you've all been so great/helpful/amazing/bored rigid, but I'd particularly like to thank Vikki for all her hard work. I understand that Sarah's dress would not be looking quite so beautiful/stunning/together/white as it does now were I not for a timely intervention. Ladies and gentleman, I'd like you all to charge/raise your glasses, I give you . . . the bridesmaids."
  • "My wife and I/Sarah and I would like to say a special thank you to the bridesmaids who have been a tower of strength throughout the preparations/day. They've been great/wonderful/beautiful and little Anna has been so good/patient/sweet and looks gorgeous/adorable/so grown up in her dress. Ladies and gentlemen, please charge/raise your glasses, I give you . . . the bridesmaids."
Sample Speeches: Sweet and Loving
"Jane Austen was right when she said, 'it is a truth universally acknowledged that a single man in possession of a good fortune, must be in want of a good wife.'

It is my good fortune to marry the woman I love and I want to thank my father-in-law for his kind words and letting me marry his beautiful daughter.

You have all helped today to be the happiest of our lives by being here with us and being kind enough to bring gifts. I never knew that toasters came in so many varieties! Seriously, the greatest gift to us is your presence and I hope that you enjoy the day half as much as we've done.

My wife (I love saying that!) would not be the person she is without the love and support of her parents and I want to thank them for helping her to be her and welcoming me into their family. As my new mother-in-law said, she is not losing a daughter but gaining a washer-upper. Whilst not quite so useful, I hope that she will accept this small gift as a sign of how much I appreciate her love and support, especially with the nerve-wracking preparation of the wedding.

All that hard work was worth it. Sarah looks even more beautiful than she does normally and I hope that I will be everything she could ever hope for in a husband. If there is one thing I have learnt from her, it is patience and today was worth all the waiting.

Sarah, I just want to say, in front of our families and dearest friends, that I love you and hope that every day will be as happy as today. Just not as expensive.

Not only did Bob, my old roommate from Uni days and the best man I know, get me to the church on time but he also didn't lose the ring and I'm grateful for everything that he's done for me and look forward to returning the compliment - as soon as possible.

Lastly, I would like to thank the pack of bridesmaids who have been such good friends through all the preparations. In particular, I would like to thank Vikki, the Chief Bridesmaid who has been there every step of the way from the wedding dress shop to the hairdressers, offering advice and support. Even if it was only to mention looking like a meringue! Please accept these flowers, which symbolise friendship as a sign of our friendship.

Ladies and gentle, please be upstanding, I give you . . . the bridesmaids.

Sample Speeches: Short and sweet

Having listened to such words of wisdom from my new father-in-law, I can only hope that I am worthy of them. Thank you, Ken.

I'm really pleased that you could all make it but am especially grateful to the Johnsons who've travelled all the way from Edinburgh to be here. I knew that it was worth including the word 'free bar' on the invitations!

You've all been very generous, not only being here today to share this happy occasion, but your gifts are very much appreciated.

My parents brought me up to believe that good things come to those who wait and I want to thank them for being right and for being there whenever I've needed them, especially this morning when Dad helped me to do up my tie as I was shaking so much. Thanks, both of you.

I now have a new set of parents, the in-laws. Contrary to all the horror stories, they've been amazing but I always knew that they would be as no one could raise so perfect a woman as my wife, if they weren't wonderful themselves and I want to thank them for helping us to have the best wedding we could ever have dreamt of. Thank you, Ken and Angela, for your kindness and for raising such a beautiful daughter.

Sarah, no one could have made me as happy as you have these last years and I look forward to growing old and grey with you at my side.

Which almost happened early when we were on the way to the church and Bob realised that he'd left the ring behind. Fortunately, everything went really well and it was great to have my best man at my side.

As for the bridesmaids, what can I say except they look lovely and have been great through all the preparations? I'd like them to accept these small offerings with our love and they deserve a drink so, ladies and gentlemen, please be upstanding and I give you… the bridesmaids.

Sample Speeches: Second Marriages
This is a second marriage for both of us and I am grateful for the words my new father-in-law said. We both feel privileged to have found each other and to be given a second chance of love.

My parents have been particularly supportive over the last few weeks when wedding nerves set in but this was to be expected as they've always been supportive, no matter what. I know that Sarah feels the same about her parents who have welcomed me into their family and have been so generous, helping us with this wedding.

When I first met Sarah I thought that she was a beautiful woman but never thought I'd see her again. Fortunately, thanks to some matchmaking by Bob, my best man and the father of Billy, our excellent pageboy who only tried to eat the cushion once, we did see each other again and I'd like to thank him for helping us to get where we are today. Sarah and I will always be grateful for his interference!

Sarah has taught me that looks are not the most important thing, which is just as well, otherwise she wouldn't have married me! She has taught me the importance of patience and compromise as our families have united to make a whole and I am grateful to her that she has helped me to make this transition quite so easily. Standing here today, in front of you all, I have to say that it has all been worth it.

Sarah's sister, Vikki, has been great and her flower arrangements are excellent - we spent the money on booze instead!

So, take advantage and raise your glasses to . . . Bob and Vikki.

Sample Speeches: Other Nickable Lines!
If you are still stuck for ideas, here are some lines from other grooms' speeches that you may want to 'borrow'.

Thanking guests
  • "I am overwhelmed with how many of you came today and I want you to know how much my wife and I appreciate you all being here to share this day with us. As for the gifts, you really are a generous bunch."
  • "The trouble with weddings, so I've been told, is that you never have the time to say how much you appreciate seeing everyone so I'm going to speak for both of us when I say how much I appreciate you all taking the time to be here today and for your generous presents. We will be circulating later and hope to have the chance to talk to all of you but, if we don't - we're really pleased that you could make it."
  • "You know us well enough to know that we'd love to rip open all that pretty paper but we've been told that we can't. Apparently, it would be rude to ignore you all while we dive right in so we're going to be good and speak to you instead! We will be opening them after the honeymoon so if anything's perishable - like food or a puppy - please let us know!"
Thanking parents
  • "When I saw Ken looking so proud as he walked down the aisle with Sarah, I realised how much the day means to both Angela and him. Sarah is their daughter, their little girl and this is a moment they've been looking forward to ever since she was a little girl. I hope that they will be as happy to have me for their son-in-law as I am to have them as my parents-in-law. I just want to reassure them that I love Sarah and will do everything in my power to make her as happy for the rest of her life as I know she is today."
  • "Mum's a bit miffed/upset/annoyed as she wanted to give me away but had to wear a hat instead! Mum and Dad have been great and I'd like to thank them for all the support they have given me throughout the years and for their kindness towards Sarah. I know that she really loves having you as her new in-laws."
  • "When I proposed to Sarah, I did so in the knowledge that, not only do I love her, but also that marriage can be the most wonderful thing in the world. I know that because my parents, have been married for 25 years and are still in love. I hope that Sarah and I can be as happy as the two of you. You really are the best parents anyone could ever have and I love you."
To the bride
  • "Sarah, you know that I love you and I hope that, by marrying you today, in front of everyone we care about, that you ca see just how much you mean to me. You are my sunshine and, without you, the world would be a gloomy place. I am so proud to be your husband and I want us to grow old and grey together but only when we're ready. We have so many plans for our future but, whatever happens, I know that we will be together for ever."

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